Thursday, September 24, 2015

Trends That Matter

Did you know:

Births to unmarried women have dramatically increased. By 2007 nearly 40% of all births reported were to unmarried women.  The statistics are even more shocking when you break them down by age and ethnicity.

          8 of 10 teenagers who bear children are unmarried
          Women in their early 20's-61% are unmarried
          Women 40 and older-21% are unmarried
          Among African-American women the rate is almost 72% who are unmarried

Cohabitation rates are rising.

          In 2008 there were 6.1 million unmarried couples
          Included were 754,000 same sex couples
          The majority of couples are under 40 years of age
          A substantial portion have children under 18 living with them

Premarital sex has increased.
       
          48% of high school teens have had sexual intercourse at least once
          68% of African-Americans had sexual intercourse
          52% of Hispanic students had sexual intercourse
          44% of white students had sexual intercourse

These trends and others should be alarming to all of us, yet, where are all the politicians and community leaders standing on these issues.  We don't know for many because they are not stepping forward to take a stand.  We live in a politically correct society.  Our leaders are afraid to stand up and say we need PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY.

Statistics from: Marriage and Family: The Quest for Intimacy, Eighth Addition, 2012

Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.
~Martin Luther King, Jr.
       


Why Care?


Why should we care if we have strong marriages and families?

You might think marriage is just a simple arrangement validated by a piece of paper that makes it legal. 
It’s actually an important social institution and has implications that far exceed the simple happiness of the two that make the vows. 
Marriage is the beginning of small co-operative units.  These units form the foundation of our societies.  When strong marriages are cultivated, children thrive.
When these happy, healthy families work as connected, intact units it helps shore up communities.  Strong, united families are there for each other through the good and the bad times.   

Thursday, September 17, 2015

The Family is of God


 Marriage between a man and a woman is ordained of God and the family is central to the creators plan and eternal destiny of His children.

                                                 The Family: A Proclamation to the World

The Family: A Proclamation to the World




THE FAMILY

A PROCLAMATION TO THE WORLD

WE, THE FIRST PRESIDENCY and the Council of the Twelve Apostles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, solemnly proclaim that marriage between a man and a woman is ordained of God and that the family is central to the Creator’s plan for the eternal destiny of His children.
ALL HUMAN BEINGS—male and female—are created in the image of God. Each is a beloved spirit son or daughter of heavenly parents, and, as such, each has a divine nature and destiny. Gender is an essential characteristic of individual premortal, mortal, and eternal identity and purpose.
IN THE PREMORTAL REALM, spirit sons and daughters knew and worshipped God as their Eternal Father and accepted His plan by which His children could obtain a physical body and gain earthly experience to progress toward perfection and ultimately realize their divine destiny as heirs of eternal life. The divine plan of happiness enables family relationships to be perpetuated beyond the grave. Sacred ordinances and covenants available in holy temples make it possible for individuals to return to the presence of God and for families to be united eternally.
THE FIRST COMMANDMENT that God gave to Adam and Eve pertained to their potential for parenthood as husband and wife. We declare that God’s commandment for His children to multiply and replenish the earth remains in force. We further declare that God has commanded that the sacred powers of procreation are to be employed only between man and woman, lawfully wedded as husband and wife.
WE DECLARE the means by which mortal life is created to be divinely appointed. We affirm the sanctity of life and of its importance in God’s eternal plan.
HUSBAND AND WIFE have a solemn responsibility to love and care for each other and for their children. “Children are an heritage of the Lord” (Psalm 127:3). Parents have a sacred duty to rear their children in love and righteousness, to provide for their physical and spiritual needs, and to teach them to love and serve one another, observe the commandments of God, and be law-abiding citizens wherever they live. Husbands and wives—mothers and fathers—will be held accountable before God for the discharge of these obligations.
THE FAMILY is ordained of God. Marriage between man and woman is essential to His eternal plan. Children are entitled to birth within the bonds of matrimony, and to be reared by a father and a mother who honor marital vows with complete fidelity. Happiness in family life is most likely to be achieved when founded upon the teachings of the Lord Jesus Christ. Successful marriages and families are established and maintained on principles of faith, prayer, repentance, forgiveness, respect, love, compassion, work, and wholesome recreational activities. By divine design, fathers are to preside over their families in love and righteousness and are responsible to provide the necessities of life and protection for their families. Mothers are primarily responsible for the nurture of their children. In these sacred responsibilities, fathers and mothers are obligated to help one another as equal partners. Disability, death, or other circumstances may necessitate individual adaptation. Extended families should lend support when needed.
WE WARN that individuals who violate covenants of chastity, who abuse spouse or offspring, or who fail to fulfill family responsibilities will one day stand accountable before God. Further, we warn that the disintegration of the family will bring upon individuals, communities, and nations the calamities foretold by ancient and modern prophets.
WE CALL UPON responsible citizens and officers of government everywhere to promote those measures designed to maintain and strengthen the family as the fundamental unit of society.



Sunday, September 13, 2015

Back to School

So excited to be going back to school.  Grateful to have this great guy cheering me on.